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The wedding of the year in Karachi.

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May 25th 2014

The wedding nerves kicked in the minute I woke up and stayed with me the entire day! The ‘Wedding in Karachi’ mission was on and preparations were due to start at 5pm so we had hours to kill!

We ventured out to Port Grand to mooch around the shops and try to pick up a few little gifts for the team but as we arrived we realised almost every shop in the place was closed…barring a cute little Bistro.

We had an hour to kill before our cab returned to collect us so we went inside and ate the best fish and chips we have had since being in the UK and washed it down with mint coolers!


Somewhat calmer, 5 ‘o’ clock finally arrived with Uffan who took me to Rose’s Salon for my Mehndi. Traditionally this is more of a ceremony where all of the women gather together and have henna applied a few days prior to the wedding. Of course we had squished a LOT of the traditions into one day, especially as we had only given Marium and IPlan Events 3 days total to plan the entire thing!
Outside the windowless parlour several armed guards sat in the heat waiting for their ladies to emerge pampered and preened. Inside was a hive of activity, the smell of hair bleach and henna permeated the air and all eyes were on me as I shyly browsed through albums of incredible Henna designs. I just couldn’t choose so the women at the salon chose for me, firstly suggesting a design that went from my finger tips to my shoulders with matching feet and ankles! I managed to reign them in a little bit thinking of the time and we agreed on 2 designs, one for my palms and one for the back of my hands.


I was led through the hair salon and the make up parlour and into a room with cushions piled on the floor. Women wearing a rainbow of Kurtis were draped on cushions being painted from all angles. Designs scrawled up arms and legs in a dizzying array of patterns. The mud-like dye was squeezed by hand in tiny circles on my palms, the young artist never breaking concentration.

I watched in awe as the artists scrawled beautiful designs and even had total henna envy at one ladies intricately decorated foot, I couldn’t believe the speed that the girls worked at, seemingly fluent in creating such complicated compositions/doodles.

Once my Mehndi was complete I was rendered entirely useless, both sides of each hand covered in an almost permanent stain inducing goo. I sat and waited for the team to come and collect me, calling inside the salon from a phone placed outside the door, strictly no men were allowed inside the mysterious building. Next stop was Tanzila’s studio to have my make up applied. The Mehndi had taken a little longer than expected so we arrived late and as the salon informed me I would be ready in around 2 hours I settled in for my transformation!

Make up timemake up

Wedding make up is a big deal in Pakistan and understandably. The bride traditionally keeps her face covered until after the legal document (Nikah) is signed and then there is an entire ceremony, Munh Dikhai, dedicated to revealing her face to her new husband. Of course, every bride wants to look her best! The girls also explained to me that brides like to be made paler for their wedding day, so at least we had that covered before we started!

Tanzilla went to work as several photographers and videographers snapped away in the background between the regular power cuts. Once finished, my eyes were dark, almond shaped and sultry and my lips huge, shiny and red! I was transformed into a Pakistani bride!


I stepped into my beautiful red dress called ‘Lehenga’ in Urdu. A short top and long heavily embroidered and glittered skirt. Diamantes shimmered and danced in the light as a beautiful gold Teeka was fastened into my hair and my Dupatta was draped over my head. The weight of the heavily embroidered veil was unbelievable. I could barely move my head even after it had been secured to my hair and the back of my dress to try to hold some of the weight. The ladies helping me dress told me that this was a lighter version of a wedding dress and dupatta and I was so thankful, then they added my gold earrings and necklace! I wondered if my neck could manage to support everything for the whole night, Pakistani brides certainly work hard to be so beautiful on their wedding day!

Make up and jewels

A little flustered, warm and petrified that I would loose an earlobe in the process of the evening I bundled myself into the car to the house where the wedding was to be held.

I was concentrating so hard on not tripping over as we arrived that I didn’t see anything going on around me, the girls directed me to an air-conditioned room where I found Alex. He looked SO handsome and royal in his Kurta and Sherwarni. The Kurta is like a pyjama suit and worn by most men on a daily basis, the Sherwani is a beautifully embroidered dress coat worn over the kurta on special occasions. He had the BIGGEST smile on his face as I entered the room and everyone gathered around us to take some pictures. We nervously chatted to the press and waited for the wedding to start. I was so flustered and nervous and felt like I was wearing my dress wrong and just couldn’t sit still!

Pakistani BrideWedding ready

Finally it was time, Alex was taken from the room and I was left alone as he took part in his grand arrival, the Baraat! Team I-Plan had a great idea and instead of him arriving in a decorated car or on the traditional horse, he arrived (apparently at speed) in a rickshaw covered in marigolds and with the traditional Dohl (drums) playing! Everyone danced him down the aisle to his seat on the traditional swing, including a very enthusiastic security guard who danced his heart out and even fired his gun into the air in all the excitement.

Barat - Alex's arrival

Soon it was my turn to arrive at the ceremony and the girls came to collect me, they surrounded me and walked me to the start of the aisle where they boys held a red dupatta over my head and led me towards Alex. As soon as I saw the garden my breath caught in my throat and formed a lump! The tears came instantly, I had never seen anything so beautiful. Decorated rugs covered the grass yet they were barely visible under the carpet of roses and marigolds outlining my path to Alex’s side. The smell was heavenly and I felt so overwhelmed with emotion at the effort and passion the the team had put into this wedding, and all with such a little amount of time.
Tears blurred my vision and I am sure I had a full on ugly cry face by the time I got to Alex. So much so that he gave me the tightest hug and a kiss and reflected my glassy eyes. Everyone cheered (or at least we thought they did) and we clasped hands tightly as the music continued from the Dohl.

Brides arrivalEverywhere was so beautifulAlex waiting for mePakistani weddingUgly cryYou may not kiss the bride

Several TV cameras were dotted around and during a break in filming Falak came to tell us that we shouldn’t kiss or hold hands until after the end of the wedding. In the Pakistani culture the bride and groom don’t talk during the ceremony or have any contact until the celebration is over. We hadn’t been told before hand but remained respectably apart thereafter.

There were lovely traditions during the evening, the Mehndi ceremony was my favourite. I rested my hand inside Alex’s and a leaf was placed on my palm. Each guest came in turn and put henna onto the leaf to wish us luck and then fed each of us sweets. The desi (local) sweets are INCREDIBLE! Balls of coconut, a heavy type of sponge, nuts and even cardamom all drenched in delicious golden syrup or [golubjam]. After several guests had fed us plenty of the sweets Tahir came along and (as per the fun tradition) fed Alex an entire sweet which is the size of a small donut! Its a wonder we didn’t develop diabetes there and then! Once we had eaten as much as we could and everyone had wished us luck it was time for dancing.

beautiful ladiesGolub jamun

The Dohl was played and the men and women who had come along as guests took it in turns to dance, there didn’t seem to be a traditional dance as such but it was all very passionate. The men in particular threw themselves into it with great fervor and we were even blessed with a great performance by Ibbad, Mariums brother who teaches dance at ActOne Studio! The women danced gracefully in their stunning dresses embroidered in gold and bright colours until it was time to serve the food.


We ate ’round gossips’ (direct translation) for starter, they are a crispy round shell dusted with salty spices and with chick peas inside. The trick is to scoop them in to a dish of spicy liquid and put the entire thing in your mouth at once and they are pretty delicious once you are over the shock of the spice. Next we had the Karachi specialty, Byriani. A dish of spiced rice, everyone has tried a byriani but never this good. It was the best we have ever tasted and just the right level of heat too! For desert, cones of ice-cream were served with a spoon of cooked noodles on the side to mix it with. Not egg noodles but like a cold rice noodle. We did as we were shown and tried it but as it wiggled down my throat I didn’t fancy trying a second spoonful.

By this time it was 1 in the morning and as the TV crews left and the cameras stopped rolling I stripped away my heavy Dupatta and earrings and massaged my poor ears. I am so in awe of the Pakistani bride. She is beautiful, strong and committed to looking her best regardless of the pain on her special day. Once free of some of my weight we danced until we could stand no more and by 2am we had the hard task of saying our farewells!

Beautiful guestsIPlan Events

IPlan Events – Marium, Falak, Uffan and Tahir – had pulled it off with epic style and grace. They had worked so incredibly hard to make it happen, regardless of short notice, power cuts, generator issues, everyone arriving late (apparently as per the norm), the TV crews dictating when things happened and press enquiries coming in via telephone throughout the ceremony.

The IPlan Events Dream Team

The IPlan Events Dream Team

 O’ Shoot Photography – Mutahir, Sharoz and team – had worked around numerous hurdles including press sending their own photographers, driving me from place to place and being generally awesome. The entire team had all also been such gracious hosts while we had been in Karachi, bringing us gifts of sweets, Kurti to wear during the day, taking us to the fantastic Kolachi restaurant and Port Grand, they had looked after us the entire time. We felt blessed and so welcome in the city of lights and we were sad to have to leave in such a hurry…in around 4 hours after leaving the wedding to be precise!

Mutahir super-duper photographer and videographer!

Mutahir super-duper photographer and videographer!

Our flight back to Peggy in Quetta left at 9 that morning which made the emotional farewells even harder as we wouldn’t even get a chance to meet again to laugh and talk about the outcome of everyone’s hard work.

We left our 66th wedding with colour, laughter and joy in our hearts, memories we will never ever forget and friends we will have for the rest of time!

Thanks goes to such an incredible team of young, spirited individuals that we KNOW will go far!

Planning – IPlan Events | Photography and Videography – O’ Shoot Photography | Make-up – Tanzilla’s studio | Wedding attire – Portia |


  1. Franca says:

    Guys this weeding is simply amazing and you both look stunning. I love how it’s incredibly different from what I’m used to, also I like the dresses, the dances and the all ceremony.

    1. Lisa & Alex says:

      It was so beautiful Franca, I absolutely had an ugly cry on as soon as I saw how much effort the team had made for us. It was so beautiful and full of energy and happiness and celebration, just what a wedding should be if you ask me! Amazing experience, one we will never forget! X

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